wellbeing

you don't have to
carry this alone

Becoming Muslim can bring real joy, and also loneliness, family strain and big questions about who you are now. Talk it through, one to one, with someone who understands the convert journey.

Free and confidential, by phone or video. Women are only contacted by women on our team.

Two women sharing a warm hug

need help right now?

We're not an emergency service. If you need help urgently:

  • In danger? Call 999
  • Urgent mental health help: call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option
  • Talk any time: Samaritans, free on 116 123
  • Prefer to text? Text SHOUT to 85258

More helplines below →

does any of this sound familiar?

Our wellbeing support is for anyone who has become Muslim, whether last week or years ago, and for people thinking about it.

Looking after your mind is part of looking after yourself. Asking for help is a strength, not a sign of weak faith.

  • ✓You've felt isolated or lonely since converting
  • ✓Family or friends don't accept your decision
  • ✓Years on, you still feel on the outside
  • ✓You're struggling with anxiety, low mood, grief or past trauma
  • ✓Prayer or belief feels hard right now
  • ✓You're unsure which expectations are cultural and which are Islamic
  • ✓Marriage or relationships are under strain
  • ✓You simply need someone to talk to

how we can help

it all starts with a conversation

peer connect

A free, confidential one-to-one conversation with someone who understands. It's always the first step.

  • One call of up to an hour, by phone or video
  • With a trained volunteer. Some of who are converts themselves
  • Space to talk, feel heard and find your next step
  • You can book another call after three months

when you need more

Sometimes a conversation is the first step rather than the whole answer. Your volunteer will talk through what would help next, which might be:

  • A referral to one of our qualified counsellors, by video call or in person if you're local
  • Pointers to specialist services, like those listed below
  • Our classes, socials and events, so you can meet other converts

peer connect

how it works

1

Referral

Book a meeting with one of our team via the Peer Connect system. They will then refer you to our counselling services, on request.

2

We'll be in touch

Someone from our team contacts you to arrange a time, usually within 5 working days of registering. Women are only contacted by women.

3

Talk

Speak by phone or video at a time that suits you. What you share stays private, unless we're worried about your safety or someone else's.

Can't make it? Please give us 24 hours' notice so we can offer your slot to someone else.

in their words

“Like with many reverts my issues were around losing friends and family members due to my conversion… Since finishing my therapy, my friends and family have noticed a big change in me. I feel a lot stronger and happier.”

Marie, UK

Counselling

“New Beginnings offers counselling services with Muslim therapists/counsellors, so it's all informed by our faith, which is really important when dealing with these issues.”

Amanda, Cardiff

Counselling

“As a convert, finding the right support is crucial to the journey… With various services provided to help, from shahada package with essential guides and equipment, to counselling, to learning your prayers… It’s a lovely group to be a part of and feeling supported.”

Rahima, Brighton

Counselling

“It was reassuring to speak to someone who understood my situation. I left feeling listened to, supported and much more positive.”

Anonymous

Counselling

meet our counselling team

Qualified counsellors and psychotherapists. Counselling is by referral through Peer Connect, by video call or in person if you're local.

Tazreen Chowdhry

Tazreen Chowdhry

Counsellor

Person-centred, integrative counsellor based in London. Works with women, couples and families through depression, anxiety, panic, trauma, bereavement and stress.

Registered member of BACP

Nadeem Ishaque

Nadeem Ishaque

Integrative Psychotherapist

Trauma-informed psychotherapist based in Glasgow, using CBT and person-centred approaches. Particular experience supporting young adults from Muslim and minoritised communities with stress, family pressure, faith doubts and relationships.

Registered member of COSCA

Jodie Wozencroft-Reay

Jodie Wozencroft-Reay

CBT Psychotherapist

Muslim convert using a faith-based approach, with over nine years in mental health therapy across charities, local authorities and the NHS. Especially experienced with worry, low self-esteem and self-criticism, and with supporting autistic and ADHD clients.

Registered with BABCP

common questions

Does it cost anything?

Peer Connect is free. If you're referred for counselling, we'll talk you through any costs before you start.

Can I go straight to counselling?

Everyone starts with a Peer Connect call. If counselling would help, your volunteer can refer you to one of our counsellors.

Who can use this support?

Anyone who has converted to Islam, at any stage of their journey, and people who are thinking about it. If you're not sure, message us and ask.

Will I speak to a man or a woman?

Women are only ever contacted by female members of our team. If you have a preference, let us know on the form.

Is it confidential?

Yes. What you share stays between you and the person supporting you, unless we're worried about your safety or someone else's. Our privacy policy explains how we look after your details.

Is this a crisis service?

No, we can't respond urgently. If you're in danger, call 999. For urgent mental health help, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option, or call Samaritans free on 116 123 at any time.

I'm worried about someone else

You're welcome to share this page with them. If they're in immediate danger, call 999.

ask something else

Not sure if Peer Connect is right for you? Message us and we'll help you work it out.

wellbeing events

retreats, programmes and group sessions

Retreat 2025

Retreat 2025

Join us for our summer retreat. We will spend 3 days praying, learning, connecting with our Creator, nature, and others, and nourishing ourselves in the beautiful locations of Buxton and Hurdlow in the heart of the Peak District.

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Ramadan 2025

Ramadan 2025

You don’t have to be alone this Ramadan. We are pleased to present this daily programme of activities specifically for converts and people new to Islam. (All timings according to UK times). Find out more about our daily Ramadan 2025 activities and join in here.

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Ramadan 2024

Ramadan 2024

You don’t have to be alone this Ramadan. We are pleased to present this daily programme of activities specifically for converts and people new to Islam. (All timings according to UK times). Find out more about our daily Ramadan 2024 activities and join in here.

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Palestine

Palestine

Join us for a heartfelt and impactful online prayer gathering dedicated to Palestine. In a time of great need, let’s unite our intentions and prayers for peace, justice, and hope for the people of Palestine. Together, we can create a powerful collective energy, sending our positive thoughts and prayers for healing and resolution in this troubled region.

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Mindfulness

Mindfulness

Ramadan is a month to focus on your mind, body and soul. Dedicating time to your wellbeing is worship and rewardable. Join us this Ramadan for a FREE 4-week workshop on...

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EFT Group Session

EFT Group Session

New Beginnings Wellbeing presents Group EFT with Aminah Jayne O'Rourke. This exciting new service is the first of its kind to bring convert women together to heal through...

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ready to talk?

Registering takes a few minutes, and someone who understands will be in touch.

Our wellbeing support is funded by donations. Help keep it free →

other places to get support

Trusted UK helplines, grouped by what they help with. Calls to 0800 and 0808 numbers, and to 116 123, are free.

any time, day or night

Emergency services
999 · if someone is in immediate danger

NHS 111
111 · choose the mental health option · 24/7

Samaritans
116 123 · whatever you're going through · 24/7

Shout
Text SHOUT to 85258 · crisis text service · 24/7

muslim support

Muslim Youth Helpline
0808 808 2008 · faith-sensitive support for young Muslims · daily 4pm–10pm

Muslim Women's Network Helpline
0800 999 5786 · abuse and family pressure · weekdays 10am–4pm

mental health

Mind
0300 102 1234 · support line · Infoline 0300 123 3393

CALM
0800 58 58 58 · for anyone struggling · daily 5pm–midnight

SANEline
0300 304 7000 · daily 4pm–10pm

Rethink Mental Illness
0808 801 0525 · advice for adults in England · weekdays

Anxiety UK
03444 775 774 · weekdays

No Panic
0300 772 9844 · panic, phobias, OCD · daily 10am–10pm

OCD Action
0300 636 5478

Beat
0808 801 0677 · eating disorders

abuse and safety

National Domestic Abuse Helpline
0808 2000 247 · run by Refuge, for women · 24/7

Men's Advice Line
0808 801 0327 · men facing domestic abuse · weekdays

Rape & Sexual Abuse Support Line
0808 500 2222 · Rape Crisis, 16+ · 24/7

Victim Support
0808 168 9111 · anyone affected by crime · 24/7

grief, family and more

Cruse Bereavement Support
0808 808 1677 · see also our funeral advice

Family Lives
0808 800 2222 · parenting and family life

Mencap
0808 808 1111 · learning disability

Alcoholics Anonymous
0800 917 7650

Narcotics Anonymous
0300 999 1212 · daily 10am–midnight

Switchboard
0800 0119 100 · LGBTQ+ · daily 10am–10pm

Numbers checked October 2026. Opening hours change, so check each service's website if you can before calling.